together. But finding time to enjoy your partner’s company is important, so why
not have fun with it?
Planning a romantic dinner might be easier than you think.
Here are some tips for couples looking to plan a special dinner with their partner:
impromptu picnic and have it on the floor? Enjoy wine, cheese, grapes, crudités,
and other easy-to-eat food on a big blanket. If weather permits and you have a
porch or garden then take your meal outside! Yes, we know it's cold outside but
all that fresh air will hopefully make the idea of getting hot and bothered back
indoors all the more appealing...
2_ When it comes to food, play it safe. If you’ve never rolled your own gnocchi
before, now is not the time to give pasta-making a try. Choose a recipe that you
know well, or order carry-out from a favorite restaurant. If you do order food,
transfer it to attractive dishes before serving. Don’t forget appetizers. Go to a
local cheese shop for help putting together an elegant cheese plate that pairs with
your wine.
3_ They say alcohol is a great aphrodisiac, so if you fancy yourself an amateur
sommelier, try your hand at creating an at-home wine tasting. Head to a wine
merchant in your area and get talking to an expert - they're often more than
willing to help you out with the best offers for the best price. Set a spending
limit - no more than x amount per bottle - and pick out a few different variations
to enjoy together, just try not to get too carried away.
4 _ Arrange “alone” time. If you have kids, see if they can spend the night at a
friend’s or relative’s home. If not, hire a sitter to entertain your children outside
of the home.
5_Whether you opt for a bubble bath, a bottle of champagne, or both - never
underestimate the romantic power of bubbles! Dr. Goldsmith agrees, saying,
"Couples have to understand that if you wait for the mood to come over you, you
could be waiting for a very long time. Set the mood! Light candles, burn some
incense, get in the bubble bath. Set the scene; all of a sudden you're in the
mood."
6_ Make sure that your home looks romantic when your partner arrives. Candles
and roses let your partner know that you have arranged something special. Set
the table with china, lovely stemware and your favorite linens.
7_ We know tracky bottoms are tempting when you're in for the evening, but
why not put in a little extra effort. Dab on some lip gloss, spritz your favourite
perfume, and slip into something comfortable - but not TOO comfortable. We
suggest wearing something tight on top and loose on the bottom - or vice versa,
depending on your assets and confidence. Try a lacy cami and slinky bottoms -
or boy shorts with one of his button down shirts. Leave a little to the imagination
- you'll drive him wild. Want to go a little further? Do a striptease!
8_ Most of the time we're all pretty stressed, so why not take the pressure off you
both with a bit of romantic R&R. "A lot of people think a romantic evening
needs to rival 50 Shades of Grey," Dr. Goldsmith says. "A real relationship is
actually better; it is an exchange of tender emotions. It is better and cheaper than
therapy. Also, the most important intimate moments happen outside the
bedroom."
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