for someone else, but cheating shouldn’t be the way how one chooses to deals
with it. Valuing your partner’s feeling and coming clean is important.
_ ”Don’t Touch my Phone”:
We are all for respecting each other’s personal space in a relationship but if your
partner has almost pounced on you to snatch his/her
phone from your hand, then you might have to start worrying.
_ Cancelling Plans:
Calling off a plan by giving reasons like ”have to work late”, ”urgent work has
come up”, ”still stuck in a meeting”, etc are important signs that you need to
pick up.
_ Excessive Phone Usage:
This is a very easy and common sign. In spite of being with you if your partner
is constantly texting someone, you might have to get alert. Sure, there can be
other reasons too, behind being on the phone like something work related. We
aren’t saying that if your partner is constantly texting it definitely has got to do
with cheating on you but if this is happening frequently, you might have to start
looking out for other signs as well.
_ Hating Surprise Visits:
The same surprise visits, which used to make your partner happy beyond limits
previously can now be an act, he/she has started hating, for obvious reasons. The
fear of getting caught usually comes out in the form of anger on you. Notice!
_ Physical Intimacy and Sex Seems Off:
While you might be totally into the moment, you will at the same time feel your
partner isn’t. You will start noticing the change in their romantic behavior. You
might also feel like your partner is no more attracted to you or is unwilling to get
physically intimate due to his actions. Most common example is, going directly
to bed or changing the topic when the conversation leads up to anything even
closely related to sex. Less sex is also one of the many signs.
_ Blaming You for all the Fights:
This can be a very common sign. If you’ll have started fighting and arguing very
frequently and if you are blamed for all of it, you need to be careful. He/she
might use it as a reason to end things with you.
_ Reduced Communication:
A couple should have a sound communication. Sharing thoughts and opening up
to each other is always comforting. However, when one of the two starts drawing
boundaries around self and stops the other from entering in, that’s where the
problem begins. Suddenly becoming secretive,
restricting conversations to asking each other how the day was, avoiding all
serious conversations about the relationship is indicative of your partner
withdrawing from the relationship.
_ Business Trips:
Staying out of town for ‘business trips’ for most of the days is very suspicious.
Frequent business trips will tell you to start questioning your partner.
Infidelity in a relationship is unacceptable and effectively ends a relationship. If
you have observed the above mentioned signs in your partner, its time you start
finding concrete evidences that prove you have been cheated on and move on.
No one deserves to be cheated.
_ New Clothes and Lingerie in use:
This might solve all your doubts. More than often, new clothes are purchased to
make a good impression during the initial stages of dating. Walking out of the
apartment looking extra good is something that needs to be observed. Spotting
new lingerie too in the wardrobe that is not being used for you is a strong sign of
your partner cheating on you. You might have to keep an eye on the wardrobe.
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